I’ll take the heat. It’s not like I was forced into this predicament and didn’t see any red flagsI was with a few crazies when I was younger but it was only after I fucked around and screwed up royally that they turned into crazies. OP whatever part you played in who she has become (She did not start out this way or you would've left way before marriage) just remember this lesson and do better with the next one.
You really need to mature up and grow up and deal with this situation like an adult- You're on an internet forum when you should be talking to her. You ran off, when you should've stayed to talk. How about you act like men did before we had this creation of the internet and you go actually speak to that human being that you're having an issue with. Get up, nut up, go be an adult and fix your shit.
A man can both make choices and accept consequences of his choices; Go be a man and talk to that woman.
I’m not good with people who prefer screaming and cussing to get their point across. And with her kids in the house and not agreeing to go out to a car to “talk” I felt the only solution was to leave. Granted I could’ve responded better.
It started because she thought I was cheating and talking to another woman through Snapchat when she learned I was disabling my last activity and location while at work.
I was only doing that so she didn’t ask why I was on Snapchat but wasn’t messaging her first. Many women in her family are the “strong independent women” aka husband is my pet.
She was legit stalking everything I was doing. It was to the point Cheating on her wasn’t even possible if I wanted to. Even now while alone I am not talking to a female.